{"id":8799,"date":"2023-11-16T08:54:20","date_gmt":"2023-11-16T13:54:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/?p=8799"},"modified":"2024-07-30T12:17:40","modified_gmt":"2024-07-30T16:17:40","slug":"queering-consent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/fr\/2023\/11\/16\/queering-consent\/","title":{"rendered":"Queeriser le consentement"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"8799\" class=\"elementor elementor-8799\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2674262 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2674262\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e4f4716\" data-id=\"e4f4716\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a9ecdfb elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"a9ecdfb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-24ef443 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"24ef443\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5389ec4\" data-id=\"5389ec4\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-382d120 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"382d120\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-73221ba\" data-id=\"73221ba\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3e8cc6c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3e8cc6c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Queering Consent <\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1ab8034 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1ab8034\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Thinking about and practicing consent is critical for your sexual journey in terms of health and pleasure.As queer people, we are often left out of conversations and education about consent due to heteronormativity. <\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-15e8018\" data-id=\"15e8018\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8e5ea06 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"8e5ea06\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"580\" height=\"236\" src=\"https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-e1700144599244-1024x416.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-8805\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-e1700144599244-1024x416.png 1024w, https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-e1700144599244-300x122.png 300w, https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-e1700144599244-768x312.png 768w, https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-e1700144599244-18x7.png 18w, https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-e1700144599244.png 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 580px) 100vw, 580px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-27fec61 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"27fec61\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2f39c82\" data-id=\"2f39c82\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9433f16 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9433f16\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What Is Consent?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ea883d8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ea883d8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Consent is an agreement between people, often occurring when you ask or give permission to do something. <\/strong>Consent has to be<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong> voluntary.<\/strong><\/span> Pressures can cause us to give consent when we may not otherwise. Be mindful of the pressures you or the people you are involved with might feel. There are many kinds of pressures we experience including authoritative, societal, romantic, peer, and self pressure.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-f33ad74 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f33ad74\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-5a01619\" data-id=\"5a01619\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dbe9c40 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"dbe9c40\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"580\" height=\"405\" src=\"https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-3-e1700250905726-1024x715.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-8842\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-3-e1700250905726-1024x715.png 1024w, https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-3-e1700250905726-300x209.png 300w, https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-3-e1700250905726-768x536.png 768w, https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-3-e1700250905726-18x12.png 18w, https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-3-e1700250905726.png 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 580px) 100vw, 580px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-0654087\" data-id=\"0654087\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5c448e1 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5c448e1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li>Romantic pressure comes from someone we are romantically involved with, and can include manipulation, guilt, and deception. (If anyone ever tells you that you\u2019d do something if you love them, that\u2019s a red flag!)<\/li><li>Self pressure is the pressure we put on ourselves based on ideas and messages we have internalized from society and people around us.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d0f8774 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d0f8774\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Consent requires a right mind.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p><ul><li><span style=\"font-size: inherit; text-align: inherit; color: var( --e-global-color-text ); font-family: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-family ), Sans-serif; letter-spacing: -0.015em;\">The use of alcohol or drugs makes navigating consent difficult. If someone is no longer in their right mind they cannot consent.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: inherit; text-align: inherit; color: var( --e-global-color-text ); font-family: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-family ), Sans-serif; letter-spacing: -0.015em;\">Strong emotions can also affect our mind and our decisions.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li><\/ul><div><span style=\"font-weight: bold; letter-spacing: -0.27px;\">Consent is needed for every new act (and can be removed at any time)<\/span><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-d6ba6b7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d6ba6b7\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-41a573b\" data-id=\"41a573b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6239db elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"e6239db\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"580\" height=\"501\" src=\"https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-4-e1700253351966-1024x884.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-8843\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-4-e1700253351966-1024x884.png 1024w, https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-4-e1700253351966-300x259.png 300w, https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-4-e1700253351966-768x663.png 768w, https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-4-e1700253351966-14x12.png 14w, https:\/\/itgetsbettercanada.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/Untitled-design-4-e1700253351966.png 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 580px) 100vw, 580px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-b859e33\" data-id=\"b859e33\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-704f5be elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"704f5be\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We cannot assume that agreeing to one act, like cuddling, means that we have permission for other acts, like kissing.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Similarly just because we have done something with a person in the past, we can\u2019t assume that we have permission to do it again.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Assumptions about what someone wants are often based on heteronormative scripts. It is valid and common to be interested in some sex acts and not others, and for those preferences to change between interactions.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3afa72d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3afa72d\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-939a53b\" data-id=\"939a53b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f5eaece elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f5eaece\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">How can you practice consent?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b4e418a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b4e418a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>How can we negotiate consent in the moment without breaking the mood?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p><ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Provide examples of how to ask for consent in casual ways.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ask your partner what they would like and let them tell you what feels good for them. <\/span><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2dd8f60 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2dd8f60\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>Be someone people feel safe saying no to you.<\/strong><\/p><ul><li>It is okay to feel disappointed when we hear a no but those feelings are ours to own.<\/li><li>We should always affirm and encourage our partner\u2019s nos.<\/li><li>By receiving nos well you will help the people around you to feel safe. Not only will this prevent harm, it may also nurture intimacy.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e45120b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e45120b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-224a535\" data-id=\"224a535\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c26e317 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"c26e317\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><br>How can we combat heteronormativity in our consent practices?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c40c60c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c40c60c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acknowledge that anyone can cause harm or be harmed\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reject heteronormative scripts around dating and sex (in favor of communicating)<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Expand our ideas around what is \u201csex\u201d<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2851f1e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2851f1e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8060e56\" data-id=\"8060e56\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9a0b67f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9a0b67f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Remember...<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c38735 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6c38735\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h5>Consent is sexy! 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